Take Control Of Your Life TODAY.

Today I want to speak to you guys about something that I know is constantly on ALL of your minds.

Take this situation: Your at a bar with a couple of your friends and you guys are having a good time. You order a couple of drinks, have a toast and your ready to start the night (and by starting the night it means that you're ready to start talking to women)

You see a cute, attractive girl across the table and your eyes meet. You look away quickly because you don't want to seem like a creep. Now you are trying to think of a clever line so you can approach her, while trying to keep a conversation with your friends.

You've come up with some kind of line now that may or may not work, but you decide to have another drink in you before you walk up to this girl.

You look back at her but there's another guy talking to her! By now your thinking: "what a slut!"

But oh look, she sent him away! 'Maybe his approach wasn't charming enough for her?'

'OK, I should perfect my line and then I'll go up to her'

Half an hour later.

'Alright, one last sip and I'm going up to her.' You take that last sip, and as you are putting your glass down, you see her getting up to leave the bar.

You think: "Ah whatever, she probably was a bitch anyways."

This is what over 90% guys do and this isn't just at a bar scene. This happens at a book store, coffee shop, the grocery store, and of course at the Night Club.

Just from locking eyes, you know she was interested in your physical appearance

What you should have done: -The moment you locked eyes with her, you should have smiled and when she smiles back, you get your ass off that chair and walk up to her confidently.

What we shouldn't have done: -Getting another drink
-THINKING OF A PERFECT, CORNY ASS PICKUP LINE

You don't think girls notice a pick up line when she sees one? . Especially if she's an attractive girl who probably gets hit on at least 3 times a day. When it comes to senses, girls dominate the guys by a landslide

Guys, don't EVER let your head get into making you think that you need this Perfect pick up line for her to be interested in you. All she's expecting from you is a simple hello, or an interesting remark about herself. They are looking for CONNECTION and CHEMISTRY, not a line from www.howtogetgirls.com

The last thing you want to do is drown your fears away with alcohol, because the second you approach her, she's going to sense it the moment you open your mouth. You want to keep your mind sober so when you do approach her, you can keep an actual conversation going, instead of blabbering something retarded that first comes into your mind.

Make someone's day.

Hey all,

I thought I would share something quick with you tonight. This is a short poem that I thought of randomly when I was on the metro. It really emphasizes how powerful and easy a Samaritan (random act of kindness with no thought of reward) act is and how much impact we have on each other.

Love is what gets us through the years.
Hope is what gets us through the months.
Laughter is what gets us through the weeks.
A smile is what gets us through the day.

You have the power to change someone's day. Compliment a person today.

LET US SHOUT: NO MORE GROUNDHOG DAY

Hey guys, this is Sean Kim reporting to you live from the beautiful city of Montreal. Another great sunny afternoon here and I thought I would give you guys a short message to think about before you start your day.

Have any of you seen the movie called "Groundhog Day?" If you guys haven't seen it yet, then watch the movie before you continue reading this! ....

It's starring the actor Bill Murray, where he travels back in time and has to live the same exact day over and over again.

I mean, can you imagine the frustration? Having to repeat the same routine and be able to predict precisely what's going to happen throughout your day, without any sort of surprise or excitement?

I can.

You see, this movie is quite ironic because it's a portrayal of how we live our lives every single day.

Just think about that for a second.

Everyday, we wake up in the morning for either school or work. We have our same routinely laid out breakfast in our fridge whether its eggs, bacon, bread. Or for some of us tardy people, we have it all wrapped up to go in an Egg McMuffin from our conveniently located McDonald's.

We sit on the Metro like zombies with one eye barely open, with an XL coffee in our hands, and when we go to work/school, we talk to the same people and eat our lunch in the same table.

Then when we get home, the first thing we do before even thinking about dinner is logging onto Facebook and Twitter (that is if you haven't already on your mobile phone). We eat dinner, shower and occasionally we meet our friends at a bar for a cocktail or two, if we are feeling rebellious.

Sounds familiar? It should.

You see, as human beings we are so remotely attached of wanting to feel normal that we are naturally uncomfortable stepping out of our way to do what we really want to do. This way of life eventually becomes a habit and we feel "comfortable" with our boring routines.


This is why I am proposing a CHALLENGE to each and every single one of you.

--------------------------------------------------

Today, I want you to do something different. And I'm not talking about having Cheerios for breakfast instead of Frosted Corn Flakes.

I'm talking about doing something that will normally make you feel a bit uneasy. Get out of your own head and compliment a stranger on the street, start a conversation with that cute girl/guy at work that you always had a thing for, or heck, start small and just go out for a change!

Beside pointing out the ridicule of how we live our daily lives, the point of this is to be comfortable doing something we felt uncomfortable doing a week ago.

This is how we become a better, more confident person, and this is how we make everyday count for something, instead of wondering what you did this past year when New Year's Eve comes around!

Now that's enough of me talking, get on with your "new" day and shout "NO MORE GROUNDHOG DAY."