Real Talk. Real Life.

Friday, July 1, 2011

Take Control Of Your Life TODAY.

Today I want to speak to you guys about something that I know is constantly on ALL of your minds.

Take this situation: Your at a bar with a couple of your friends and you guys are having a good time. You order a couple of drinks, have a toast and your ready to start the night (and by starting the night it means that you're ready to start talking to women)

You see a cute, attractive girl across the table and your eyes meet. You look away quickly because you don't want to seem like a creep. Now you are trying to think of a clever line so you can approach her, while trying to keep a conversation with your friends.

You've come up with some kind of line now that may or may not work, but you decide to have another drink in you before you walk up to this girl.

You look back at her but there's another guy talking to her! By now your thinking: "what a slut!"

But oh look, she sent him away! 'Maybe his approach wasn't charming enough for her?'

'OK, I should perfect my line and then I'll go up to her'

Half an hour later.

'Alright, one last sip and I'm going up to her.' You take that last sip, and as you are putting your glass down, you see her getting up to leave the bar.

You think: "Ah whatever, she probably was a bitch anyways."

This is what over 90% guys do and this isn't just at a bar scene. This happens at a book store, coffee shop, the grocery store, and of course at the Night Club.

Just from locking eyes, you know she was interested in your physical appearance

What you should have done: -The moment you locked eyes with her, you should have smiled and when she smiles back, you get your ass off that chair and walk up to her confidently.

What we shouldn't have done: -Getting another drink
-THINKING OF A PERFECT, CORNY ASS PICKUP LINE

You don't think girls notice a pick up line when she sees one? . Especially if she's an attractive girl who probably gets hit on at least 3 times a day. When it comes to senses, girls dominate the guys by a landslide

Guys, don't EVER let your head get into making you think that you need this Perfect pick up line for her to be interested in you. All she's expecting from you is a simple hello, or an interesting remark about herself. They are looking for CONNECTION and CHEMISTRY, not a line from www.howtogetgirls.com

The last thing you want to do is drown your fears away with alcohol, because the second you approach her, she's going to sense it the moment you open your mouth. You want to keep your mind sober so when you do approach her, you can keep an actual conversation going, instead of blabbering something retarded that first comes into your mind.